[QUOTE=h0ney_c;47191]This is just a friendly reminder to all western guys
Hi Honey_C
Good posting.
[QUOTE=h0ney_c;47191]This is just a friendly reminder to all western guys
Hi Honey_C
Good posting.
i am sitting here, wearing a coat, heating on max, freezing
aparantly scotland is colder
hehe kimmi just teasing
jeez where have you moved toOriginally Posted by baboyako
i am sitting here, wearing a coat, heating on max, freezing
aparantly scotland is colder
hehe kimmi just teasing
made the mistake of switching it off during the day
trust me when your lady is in the UK this error will never occur, your mosre likely to have a police raid as the Police think you have a skunk farm inside due to the high leccy bill and huge amount of heat emitting from your house when they fly over with the thermal wotists.made the mistake of switching it off during the day
Buy a mobile heater for instant heat and as a backup.
Keith - Administrator
Thanks, Manilana and welcome to the forum!
Maybe it will be a good idea to write advice about boyriend scammers..! Coz if theres filipina scammers as Honey_C described here sure theres also scammers foreigner boyfriends who just come as a sex tourist or just wanted to marry Filipina to be his slavewife.
Manilana,
Yes you are right, many men look for Filipina to be his sex slave, old chinese proverb, confucious say
sex is price woman pay to have security of marriage.
Marriage is price man pay to have sex.
46 is good age for all Filipina's because the British BF can help you with your family...
46..46 46 46
Pete_Forum Moderator
Philippines marriage, Courtships, UK Entry Clearance
hi Joe,
the sun has been shining here for 2 days
, forgot what it looked like
kimmi, good you made it here in one piece
get some iron bru in you - made in scotland from griders
best of luck lady
thanks for the warm welcome..my Chucky Clive just gave my my first Iron Bru now, since he tried a lot of times to offer me wines and others but i am not a drinker so I always turned him down and when I tasted the Iron Bru I like it..oooppps, I hope Boss wont banned me for promoting..
Very well said Manilana, I am looking forward on that too..
Very well said Manilana, I am looking forward on that too..
Looking forward to what, exactly...?
Oh dear, I'm 47. Past it. Too old.
Ian
iron bru is no good - get onto the buckfast
Very well said Manilana, I am looking forward on that too..the filipina gf who u chat too and u send money too? while she as a local bf and there off out partying on ur cash.Looking forward to what, exactly...?
the foreign bf who scams you by chatting on yahoo and bores you to death lol
or the foreign bf who lies about everythink to you,just to sleep with you!
so dont send money and dont sleep with anyone until ur trust each other!
Your helping the church too as its made by Monksiron bru is no good - get onto the buckfast
if u go to the filipinaheart.com chat room theres a girl in there,as soon as she sees u enter the lobby she will ask for a private chat with you! and within 5 minutes will ask u go to there to meet her the next month for SEX lol 5 minutes later asking for $300 a month and telling u that she loves u already and she will have cam sex with u too? so dont all go rushing there lol
when I read this thread I thought maybe it's worth sharing this story:
Just before I got married I had an American friend (well he was actually a father of a chatmate). I didn't really know him that much and likewise. But he called me one day in November and aked me a huge favor of tracking down his fiancee in Cebu. He said they we're set to be married in January of the next year and although he has never met this girl he trusted her so much and believed everything she said, in short he was besotted with a virtual girlfriend. He thought everything was all set for their wedding, He sent her close to P300,000 to cover the expenses of the wedding and more than that before to set her up on a business (he actually thought she owns a grocery)!!!! He said he was worried she was hiding because whenever he calls her house she is always away so he feels like she is hiding from him.
He wanted to make sure he still has a bride to come to when he flies to the Phils in January and he also knows that I was a law graduate so he trust I might have an idea of how to deal with her myself. He offered to pay for my plane ticket and hotel. But I was really scared to do this because I've never even flown before and Cebu is just too far for me so I was thinking twice. However, I felt sorry for him so I said yes. I did fly on my own and tried to locate her address and within a day I found her house and there was no grocery but a very small sari-sari store. She tried to hide from me as well but when I served her housemate a demand letter she ended up calling me at the hotel later in the day and confided that she used the money to pay their house because it was going to be foreclosed by the bank and she couldnt tell her American boyfriend. I think that was really cruel!
Anyway, I told my American friend this and I got him in touch with a local lawyer whom I gave a copy of the demand letter to for the filing of appropriate charges against the girl. From then on, I flew back to Manila and on to Naga. I didn't know what happened after that. The last time I talked to him on the phone he thanked me and he said he would still fly to the Philippines in January anyway he's got a ticket already but not to get married to face her in court.
So what do you think of that?
I think that you should change your vocation toAnyway, I told my American friend this and I got him in touch with a local lawyer whom I gave a copy of the demand letter to for the filing of appropriate charges against the girl. From then on, I flew back to Manila and on to Naga. I didn't know what happened after that. The last time I talked to him on the phone he thanked me and he said he would still fly to the Philippines in January anyway he's got a ticket already but not to get married to face her in court.
So what do you think of that?
Private eye and offer your services to suspicious prospective husbands.
She's taking over Kimmi's job now she's here in the UK
Keith - Administrator
Why not say..
I'm sure every filipino knows about the meaning of M.M.M.M.
Not an expert, I only try to help.
what do i think if it ?
I would say its pretty common in the Philippines, in fact I remember there used to be a website where Filipinas who did this sort of scam were named and shamed, I forgot the website but it was in Cebu, the fact is, this story is pretty common for someone who enters into a relationship via internet and bestows on the recipient the qualities and attributes that they think would be manufactured into a silicon doll.
At a cost of £5000.00 you can buy a doll that is pure silicon, has great boobs, and every sexy titllating feature you would want, she does not answer back, does not have a headache, and at 3am in the morning, if you wake up and feel like some horizontal olympics, she never says no !.
Now if you want a virtual GF get a silicon doll, because this guy has already been taken for P300,000 and probably a bit more as well, any Filipina who plays this game should be dumped unceremoniously in style in front of her parents, as happened to one Filipina who was cheating on her American BF with a Filipino.
A certain American guy was dating a Flipina, and he proposed marriage to her after visiting twice, the first time to get to know her, the second to get to know her a little more, but he was smitten with her, he said "She has a great body, nice curves, sweet, and I have to have her"
Fair enough to that i say, we have all probably said that in the Philippines at one stage or another, we all know when we meet our girl, its christmas, and who would blame the guy for feeling like that.
Sadly for him and many others, the reality is not the same once the honeymoon is over, he continued to correspond with the girl on yahoo chat at the time, NO SKYPE back then, and no I-chat, Yahoo chat with a webcam was the only way he could see her.
About 6 months into the relationship, and after sending his girl P30,000 a month plus gifts, flowers, chocolates, you name it she had it, a jealous cousin of hers contacted the lovelorn American BF and told him, that his fiancee was having sex with a Filipino.
it turns out, the Filipina, not content with the P30,000 she was being sent a month to live on, (Lets face it, she had no money, had not ever had a job)
so this was more money than she had ever had before, and plus the fact she had the latest Nokia mobile, nice clothes, jewellry, and just about every other luxury she had never had before)
Anyway it turns out, she was attending college paid for by the American boyfriend as she wanted to get a college degree, whilst there she met a Filipino, and they became lovers, the cousin jealous of the money and attention she was getting from the American decided that the Filipina was taking the proverbial p.....
She contacted the American and told him by text, what her cousin was doing, at first he did not believe it, but when he told the story to another guy who had visited Philippines many times, he suggested the use of a detective agency.
The American then contacted a firm of foreigners who go to the Philippines most years to provide video surveillance reports on girls, where the fiance does not trust the situation, or feels uncomfortable about his relationship, very similar to cheaters on SKY for those that watch it.
True to form, he paid USD 300.00 for a guy to go and provide a report on Filipinas, with video camera footage and all the rest including details of her movements, checking out her story and address.
When the Foreigners came back to him, he saw footage of her cavorting around town with a Filipino, and found that the room he was paying for was being lived in by the Filipina and her lover, all at his expense, with the Filipino eating out most days at the expense of the American.
So the American decided not to get mad, but to get even, and he did just that, the engagement was set for about 2 months from that moment, so he carefully made his plans and how he would deal with his scamming little filipino flower.
This was his plan.
When it was time to fly to Manila, he went as normal, meeting his little flower at the airport, pretending nothing was wrong, he kept up his act as best he could, even looking in her face and not wanting to believe that she had done the dirty on him.
Still he kept up his guard, a week later it was the time of the engagement party, a big party at a local restaraunt, over 50 guests showed up for the party, the Mother the Father and the family were all in attendance, it was a lavish gathering, costing in excess of P25,000.
Having planned his grand finale, he paid the restaraunt owner , so that he could leave once he played his trump card, after all he thought her parents were nice people.
And it went like this : when it was time to give his speech, he simply wished all the guests well, and started by saying:
"As you all known xxx and I have been a couple for 8 months, in all that time I have worked so hard to be where we are today, not a moment went by that I did not think of this day, I made lots of sacrifices to be here, but here we are, of course sometimes things happen that you do not expect, but I just want to say, that it really hits you hard, when you find out, that the love of your life is a dirty little whore."
"Now xxx is going to explain to you all why she has been fxxxxxx someone else for 6 months while I have been working my ass off to come and make this engagement happen, I am sure she has alot of explaining to do, oh by the way, I am leaving now, as I have a flight to catch.
This represents a narration of a true story that happened to an American about 3 years ago, the story still rings in my mind, its common, it wont be the first story of its type, and I am confident, that it will not be the last.
Pete_Forum Moderator
Philippines marriage, Courtships, UK Entry Clearance
No thanks. Never imagined myself doing that. Too scary and dangerous. I did that just once. My friends can't even believe I could do it. Anyway, I have a life now with a nice British husband.I think that you should change your vocation to
Private eye and offer your services to suspicious prospective husbands.
sorry i'm not in the UK. I'm in Singapore. hehehe! I only go to the UK twice a year.
She's taking over Kimmi's job now she's here in the UK
Who said otherwse?
Keith - Administrator
u know my gf as the same story with her male cousin as the local filipino bf! is gf as a american bf whos just payed for her annulment and looking after her and her family as there in the country.
as the gf is staying in manilla to get her annulment and hes staying with her too.
but the foreign bf came to see her and meet her in manilla,the cousin told the foreigner about my gfs family helping him(hes on a cargo ship now,best place for him) so the foreigner wanted to say thanks to my gf and her mom for helping the cousin and is gf by taking them to dinner,my gf declined after the cousin asked them to say he was staying with them for the past 2 weeks and not with the girl?
u know how they all met?
the american and the gf already met and had plans,so he got a local business to support her and her family,guess who he employed as the manager? yep the cousin and when the business wasnt going to well(i wonder why!)he sent them both some money!
i did tell my gf to meet him and tell him,but she wouldnt.
theres a sucker born every minute,sadly.
at least some people can see this forum and open there eyes?.
Are they giant size m and m's stuck togetherWhy not say..
That is all a bit scary. About my gf - I met her in September in 2004 - but we didn't really become romantic until April 2005. It was maybe a month later that she asked me for money to legally adopt her daughter. If I am honest, I never saw the papers, but I remember the story and the measures she took to make it happen. I think she told the truth.
The remainder of the money she used to send me a parcel for my birthday that June. She bought me "The Incredibles", painted a picture of Mount Apo, bought me some tshirts, and some for my family too. I didn't send her money until July - when she had her purse stolen. I was worried then - but I only sent her £30. She hardly mentioned money problems.
I have helped her get a passport, her daughter too.
We have an ongoing court case, and I sent her money for that 10k. She still has it - but used 3000 when her brother-in-law needed a blood transfusion. Her sister later thanked me. She only used the money after asking me.
I send her a small amount monthly - 5k. When I first met her - she told me she was married and separated. We werejust friends for 6 months, and I asked her if she will get a divorce. That is when I learn about that crazy law in the Phils. We are seeking an atty now to get annulment. When I read some of the stuff here, or other sites "Pointman Cebu" for example, I feel like running away. But I know my girl is genuine - just complicated life and laws in the Phils. I am not taking huge financial risks - and I have a limit to how much I will do.
so you've been on there bornabirth , for research purposes only
well there's an idea scouser kieth, get the bot in the chat room to sweet talk people, and ask them to send money for an airticket so they can come and meet the person,. and send the dosh to your secret bermuda bank account
and for ADY ' I am not taking huge financial risks - and I have a limit to how much I will do.' well b4 i was married , i set many limits on how far i would go and help her, each one broken, with me there was sky the limits, i don't think you can have limits when you love someone, but wish you luck with it
At the end of the day, no matter how much how money you have spend with your partner to make her happy, what matter is how much happiness you get seeing your partner happy or by making her happy. When the man spent on her girl to make her happy that does not mean she is scamming him. In one way or another both have their roles; the girl is doing her best to please and make her man happy with him and the man is doing his part, too making the relationship work, are we expecting the girl to send money to her BF abroad to get him or come here? That is more inappropriate and would be very impossible for most unless it is the girl who have money and richer than her man.
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