Ian,
Hope you are OK. I read a lot about your situation, and it seems to coincide with mine. As of now, Shei is trying to find an attourney to help in annulment. I would be interested to hear, if you are prepared to share, what the attourney advises Mae. The Attourney Shei spoke to told her the process will take 2-3 years (in Davao), but could be quicker in a provincial town. Some of the things I heard make my head spin - what is legal andwhat isn't??