Originally Posted by
grahamw48
Welcome to the forum Steve.
If you want an honest opinion, I think you'll be in for a lot of stress and unhappiness in the future, from what I've just read.
Family is the number one priority in the Philippines culture. Everything revolves around family.
Out of all of those thousands of young ladies available to you, you have chosen a lady who is married... in a country with no divorce, and who also has children ? You say he 'unfortunately' keeps in touch with his children. I think that is an unfortunate turn of phrase when referring to a man who appears to be attending to his responsibilities.
I believe you will be permanently dogged by all of this 'baggage'... lovely as the young lady probably is.