My thoughts too Steve. I know several gay people and some are very good friends, just because I used the term 'poof' doesn't mean I think any less of them. In fact I use this term affectionately to their face. They just laugh as they know I don't mean any offence
I watched the tv the other night 24 hours in A&E,
There was a doctor on there who was gay, infact there seems to be lots of clever people who are different to the norm ,