hi japonica, sorry to hear your story as to what everyone said they are right really, if your fiancee love you dearly he will support you in many ways, sis if he thinks its a waste of money, maybe you should be thinking what if you end up with this guy .... will he be the right one???
coz based on what you said i dont think he is, just think about it japonica he was never there when you need him the most. there's a lot of descent guys out there who will respect and love you and will stand beside you sis.
I maybe wrong sis but like i said its just based on what you said. good luck on your annulment.