Went to see a friend today who lost his wife to cancer a week last Friday, the funeral is this coming Monday,
It has taken me this long to go and see him because i knew there would have been so many going before me and you only can take so many , i am sorry for your lost , and that is why i kept away until now,
What do you say to someone who is going though this ,
I thought i would be just myself and i knocked on the door,
Well after a few hours of tears and laughter from us both i think we both understood that we are there for each other, we are both so alike , not into drinking and can sit there quiet comfortable in each others company without saying much too,
I do hope i can be there for him but i do know it takes two and at this moment he will have so much on his mind and there will be so many offering help too,
I have decided to make a Montage of pictures of them both and of friends around them , i was there wedding photographer , so i have copies plus loads of pictures from all our past lives too, hope this helps him
Monday is going to be a horrible day for him and others too, but its a day of fond memories of a dear friend who died so young
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Originally Posted by Steve.r
