He claims to spend 50k per year on the former prostitute. She claims to have to beg for food......and her visa is running out.
I know who I would believe.
If the situation has not changed in years, and she's being saying the same things, and you've been accepting/ignoring them as said in a 'moment of anger' and forgiving her etc. then why post now? I suspect something has changed/got worse?
Personal opinion? Direct verbal action - she either stops it or packs her bags. Imagine this the other way round, with you saying these things and having similar 'anger attacks' towards her? 1. What kind of man would you be? and 2. Would you expect her to just accept it as its 'how you are'. No, I thought not, you would expect to be asked to sort yourself out...
I can remember putting up with this sort of ..... during my first marriage. It was mainly because of the 2 children that I played the game. When she finally done a bunk and left the kids with me not a single tear was shed.
This time round I said to myself no more children and no more biting my lip. Fortunately I appear to have married an Angel so no such problems.......yet
It appears the OP has divorced us too, he has not been back to explain anything since his second post....
If you want your dreams to come true ...... first you have to wake up
I used to tell Keith that I would go back to the Philippines whenever we had bad arguments. Although he knows I'm not really serious coz I would've done it already if I was. He would just reply "Oh here we go again." whenever I said that, then he would say he would go to the Philippines instead and I stay here...hahahaha
-=rayna.keith=-
...When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible...
I keep telling Ems that we should go to the Phils, but all she says i like it here, then i say well i shall go then and she says GO,
Thats when i say ok send me my maintenance each month and life will be good for us both, thats when she changes her mind quite quickly
Rayna, you know Keith wouldn't survive on the food there, unless he went to Mc D every day lol
If you want your dreams to come true ...... first you have to wake up
-=rayna.keith=-
...When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible...
I remember years ago someone telling me that a KFC was like your first date.....
all you got at the end was a greasy box and a bone
At present it's more a case of 'bone-idle' for me.
I just wish I wasn't right now Graham, I need work.
If you want your dreams to come true ...... first you have to wake up
Yes Arthur, all resolved with no bloodshed
If you want your dreams to come true ...... first you have to wake up
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