I hear the neighbourhood regularly hosts a party but the regulars have been complaining about how the numbers are dropping off, how the old regulars no longer attend and how it's the same old faces these days.
One day, a newcomer arrives in town. He sees a poster advertising the parties and wanting to make new friends, he turns up to the next party.
He soon realises it's just not his thing - he's not struck on some of the guests, the food isn't to his liking and he LOATHES the music, he can't stand RAP. It's not a case of wanting to be surrounded by clones of himself, but it's not enough that all they have in common is their shared neighbourhood. He gets a headache and decides to leave. It's not his party - he's not the host - so it's not up to him to dictate the music policy but he can decide whether or not to bother turning up to the next party.
At the next party, someone wonders what happened to the newcomer who came along to the last party and soon a few of the regulars are wondering what happened to the people who used to come previously. Meanwhile, the person in charge of the music continues to play more RAP at an even higher volume.
As the Beatles sang on the 1964 album "Beatles for sale"... "I don't want to spoil the party so I'll go".
Enjoy your party. Bye bye.
Alan