Thanks for the rep Fred,
My sister in law has helpers , and when we first went over to the phils i met this lady, she did work hard for the family, washing cloths shopping cooking and just generally cleaning up after everyone.
I could not understand it at first , why could the kids not just move there plate of the table or move there cloths themselves, in my eyes they was just lazy and may i add they are still but thats down to how they are brought up.
They have been through many helpers now and i think they have family members helping out now.