I was so young when my daughter was born , me and her mum was just kids ourselves and we had no idea, but we managed and a yea later another daughter was born then 9 years after that our last daughter was born.
I would not say they was spoiled by me , dont get me wrong they did never go with out , we had holidays and life was good,but there grandma did spoil them .
Now my grand kids are spoilt rotten by there grandmas who buy them everything and more, but again me sensible Steve just puts money in there banks and show them how to build fences and do the garden,you never know it may come in useful later on in life![]()