harry so sorry that things didn't turn out in a good way for you both. my husband and I had some difficulties with my spouse visa but we managed to explore all the possibilities and we got there in the end. being optimistic really will help you and that's good. don't lose hope & keep trying. there's a saying right that if at first you don't succeed, try try again. keep your chin up & just be there for each other & it'll work out alright![]()