Can i just add to this and its something for myself too,
Land titles for the so called Family plot.
I am told that it is in the dad and mums name , but if one dies there share is past down to the survivor and heirs in equal shares, then if anything happens to the survivor then there share goes to the heirs also. and is this where the problems start i wonder, "we are rich".
So then you could either all agree to sell it or one could buy it and so on, or have i got this all wrong.