Its really painful hoping too much dreaming for a good future with the man you love then all of a sudden everything will turns into a complete disaster.
I received a text message from my ex-boyfriend today telling me that he's into a massive thinking AGAIN of coming here. He said he doesnt want to spend alot of money without any assurance that i will be granted a visa.

He's been doubting that i will not be able to get a visa
Kuya Dom, i agree with your assessment why he's been putting all the efforts in my shoulders.
He always keeps telling me about the money that he's going to spend visiting me here. I never asked him a single amount of money. And i keep on telling him beware of this girls directly offering him marriage they just want his money. But instead of listening he's still chatting with them.
He finally made his decisions of not coming here, its because he gives much importance on his MONEY. This experience taught for not "HOPING TOO MUCH".
Ate shelly, thanks for all your advices me. For all your support.
Thanks to all of you guys for extending ur knowledge and for all the inputs that you had shared.