Hi, I'm alma. I found this site while researching about Fil-Brit relationships and thought it would be helpful if I seek for advice from you as your comments and suggestions are based from your actual experiences.
I have been seeing an english guy online for five months now and we seemed to click during the earlier months of getting to know each other. On the third week of this month, we are to meet in person. But honestly, I feel like I don't want to meet him anymore because of the recent behaviors and remarks that he is showing me and giving me when we chat lately.
I know he is stressed with a lot of pressures in his life and for 5 months, I know that small things stress him and make him mad. I just would like to know if this characteristic is common to english guys. I just don't want it when he seems to flip a lot of times and puts the blame on me when he gets stressed. That's why I have second thoughts of meeting him. I just am not sure of how I feel anymore for him.
I am more than willing to understand him and make compromise, but I just want to make sure if I am doing the right thing if I choose to stick with him. Is that kind of behavior common to english guys? I don't wanna lose the opportunity to love again as I have been hurt so badly before, if I choose to go, what if he is the right one for me? And if I choose to still understand him and take him as he is, won't I appear as too pushy and stupid? I am just so confused! I don't know what I should do. I just want this thing off my chest...
