Hi i was reading the posts here , i have been married twice before and the last one i nearly had my wedding ring finger surgically removed so i would not do it again, both the girls wre australian but in all fairness i was a proffesional soldier at that time as well which is never a good mix i have been on my own now for about 12 yeras with the occasional g/f but never was serious enough to marry , a fellow i know married a young girl from manilla about 23 years ago she has put up with a lot from him and supported them for years on her wage only they have a brand new home after she paid there last one off and i said to my father why cant i have a gem like that we could live like a king and queen and thats where i started , i pulled my head out of my butt and realized that if i dont find someone nice i will die a lonely old man , the woman i am engaged to arrives here next month after 1 year of red tape finnaly we can be a true couple we plan to get married soon after she gets here but i might just take her to the registry office so she dont get away hahahahah, all she has ever asked of me is that i love her and i have tried and will continue to try to treat her as my princess i dont earn a lot and she says she wants to work to help me , for someone who just wants me to love her this is not hard at alll she is softly spoken warm gentle and buetifull in my eyes , i dont know what it is like in your country but here anyone who marrus a fillippino is considered a loser well i am a loser am i am proud of it ,ha im no loser this girl is a gem and i know if i treat her well she will love me till they close the box on me and probbaly after as well jsut thought i would put my little coments in hope i dont upset anyone .