From previous posts, if you use the search button thingy, you will see that a couple or three grand in the sponsor's kitty will suffice....
Ask for a bank loan, deposit it in your savings account, have a statement printed, and send it off as proof....
After a while return the money unused....
It is like cheating a little and I might have given the wrong suggestion here, but it is a small way out of a predicament.
Personally, if you are so worried about finances, I would advocate to marry in the Philippines for a couple of reasons...
1st is having her family witness the event,
she would love that.
2nd is the costs involved in marriage nowadays, lots and lots cheaper overthere...
YOU would love that....![]()