At age 3, success is NOT peeing in your pants.
At age 12 ... it's having friends.
At age 17 ... it's having a driving licence.
At age 20 ... it's having sex,
At age 35 ... it's having money to indulge in ... ... whatever you fancy.
At age 55 ... it's having saved enough to afford a comfortable retirement.
At age 60 ... it's STILL having sex!
At age 70 ... it's STILL having a driving licence.
At age 80 ... its once again refraining from peeing in your pants.