Welcome to the forum Lenn.
Argue?? well, for me as much as possible I avoid argue and would love to show my affection to my love instead. As they say, Life is too short, if tomorrow never comes does he knows how much you love him, so always treat him as if its the last moments of your life. I guess, be submissive and open- minded to avoid conflicts. But of course theres no such perfect relationship, infact we just argued this morning about what color of the brand new car he is going to get for me. hehehe...of course in the end I won.