I would like to say thank you to Fred. Fred, you offered the only reasonable and intelligent response. The location of the apartment, inside a compound, was a big mistake. The male members of the "family" seem to have regarded themselves as some kind of "overlords", able to totally disregard the rights or wishes of mere tenants. It was not a cheap place, by the way.
And the fist-waver got his. I found him without his group of retainers. Nuf said.

By the way, do you know what Filipinas prefer European men? Because the locals would rather play with their cocks.