Sometimes, the most hurtful words come from the people that matter most in our lives. Hearing unkind words undeniably puts you into a sudden distressing situation comparable to a lightning; a deadly natural phenomena known to man, striking so suddenly causing imbalances between our heart and mind. You are caught unprepared shattering you into pieces; an ugly situation that promptly brings mental or emotional strain and hostility.

Give chance to listen to people when they are angry because that is when the real truth comes out. But there is hope; dark clouds always have silver lining. And so is the selfless humility of an individual.

How can you unite feelings abruptly tending away from each other?

A child's meekness. Mind, eyes, and heart are free from passing judgments and of conceit. Their lips are soft of tender words. Emotions are of purest intention.

What then is the best way to be heard without causing a rift?

Answer lies within you.