An interesting subject today on the menu at Filipino UK Forum, what is that makes British Guys and the Filipina ...connect ?

Do they have a chemistry ?

I think we overestimate sometimes the power of race and culture, my experiences and listening to the Thai Girl/British Guy stories, lead me to believe its more to do with personal preferences, and not because a Filipino is by virtue of her nationality better than say a kana or Essex girl ?

Those British men who pursue Filipina's or who pursue Thai girls tend to do it for reasons of personal preference, I have always said that men do not travel 6000 miles to south east asia simply to satisfy their sexual needs.

I am totally convinced that men travel those distances because they truly do look forward to seeking the attentions of women who are small and petite in appearance, slightly darker skinned, jet black hair, and who display a pleasing and welcoming disposition.

Some guys tell me, that Thai girls display a certain amount of body heat when they are in bed with them, is this to say that a British girl from the West Midlands, cannot also display the same body heat in bed when required to do so ?

Who is to say ? this is only something that can be found out by the individual concerned who is attached to that person.

The debate about whether Filipina's than foreigner women seems to continue despite the obvious contradiction. Have you noticed that the same men that are so adamant in Filipinoi women being better than their cold, fat, ugly Western counterparts are also the ones frustrated by the Filipino women being manipulative, “smiling assassins” who don’t return the genuine affection the men claim they give them?

Yes, it’s true I am talking about a group of men and not a particular person. However, ask yourself if you believe that Filipina's are the “good ones” compared to foreigner or Western women? If so, do you also believe that Filipina's often cannot be trusted, are money hungry, and place you in second/third/fourth place compared to her family, and other Filipino's?

Too often, the same guys that deride foreigner or Western women in preference of Filipina,s will simultaneously be cynical about Filipino women.

While it may be a matter of degrees, many such dual advocates seem to operate as if each belief was only true independently while the other magically appears when it suits them!

When angry at Western women, compare the sweet young Filipina to the foreigner feminazis.

But When the Filipina girlfriend pisses you off, talk about their shortcomings compared to the Western educated females.

In this debate, the men are often sex tourists and sexpats, but they can include men who date non-prostitute Filipino's as well.

In the same fashion, most of the Filipina's involved seem to be bargirls, freelancers, or women that are engaging in relationships for money.

However, it can and often does include “good Filipina's”, according to the men who post the stories, that some of us read at this forum.

There is also another ongoing debate about whether a British guys relationship with a Filipina can work and if the odds are any worse than that with a Western or Foreign woman.


I believe the answers to these two questions are actually intimately related. I don’t believe a relationship between a British guy and a Filipina can be “better”, though experience has shown it is clearly “different” than a relationship with a Western woman.

It is the culture that makes a heterosexual love affair intrinsically different between a British male and Filipino female. (by culture, whether she is actually Filipino, Thai Chinese, or Thai Indian) and a Westerner in the personal dynamics. It is only the physical uniqueness that is affected by the genetic impact of race.