That was some serious money you invested there as well, i remember the pictures as it was getting built.
We have ploughed over 6 million peso in to our house and land in the philippines. Luckily there is only the wife and i involved and the wife's mother is looking after it when we are not there. Will not have any of her family there. Found out that one of her brothers was living there for 6 months at one point, took a month to get him out of there and told him he is not welcome any more. The wife did not know about her brother staying there and was annoyed as much as i was but blood is thicker than water and i was in the dog house for a short period when i told him to vacate in a few choice words. She did understand where i was coming from ..... in the end.