This might help someone,
A british man meets and falls deeply in love with a younger philippino girl and the girl falls in love with the man, the relationship moves very quickly and the couple are so in love and the man puts his life on hold not only spending alot of money but time on the girl he puts up with his hole town talking about his new gf, did he buy her, what magazine did you get her from, she,s only after your money i,am sure some of you have been there yourself, the man is,nt stupid and he now,s the girl has a hart of gold and calls her his own little angel, as time goes by the gf comes to the uk and meets the family who not only gives her a very warm welcome but makes her part of the family instead of three sisters there are four with the girl becoming the new younger sister.
As in any relationship its time for the couple to take it to another level and the girl wants to get married, the man is,nt against marrage but although he,s in his late thirties he has never been married and because of his past wants to be 100% confident that when they get married it would be for ever and because he knew that this was the girl for him he could carry on the relationship until his was ready to wed his gf, see he loves the girl and the girl loves him, he has no intention of leaving her and made it very cleare that he only had one love of his life traverling 1000,s of miles to see her and supporting her in everything she wanted to do and the girl gave the man a love he never thought he would get from anyone in his life, sounds fantastic.
After three years the couple meet up for a holiday in asia its a good holiday but the man can tell its not the same the gf has changed a bit, not in a bad way but it ain,t quite right so they talk and as usual the talk turns to weddings and the gf admits that because the man has taken so long to wed her she does,nt feel the same, i think we can understand her it means so much to these girls the security of marragebut i would like to think we understand the man aswell, he,s not the first man to get cold feet and thinks that every thing else he does for her makes up for his lack of speed to take her to the church,
Well the girl makes it quite cleare time is running out for the relationship unless the man does something, the idea of losing his special girl does,nt make his mind up he done that the first minute he met her but it was the kick up the **** he needed and some other little thing happend he found a site, a site where he found like minded people who could help with the simple things like, how do you get married in the philippines, the gf had always wanted the wedding but never done much about it so it was left to the man to sort things out even though he was always busy working trying to ern the money to travel to see his gf, to find a site like the one he has found was a god send
So the man does what he always wanted to do and ask,s the girl to marry him and yes is the reply, but in the back of his mind is the holiday the gf had changed, why ? another man? no, maybe she did,nt love him anymore? no, she was fed up of waiting and in her mind was getting ready thinking they would never wed, she had built her self another life one where the bf did,nt exsist she was colder towards him and admited to her bf she was scared and unsure, well this is a problem the bf had waited to make sure he would,nt f##k up his marrage like his dad had f####d up his and cant marry someoneone who is,nt sure about him and the gf has changed but still loves the man.
i,ve not seen the end to this story if i ever find it out i will tell you.
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, he goes back to the stall to get the correct change, and misses his plane and his holiday in paradise , moral of the story, don't let the little things get into the way of your dreams 
you get use to it,, 
Originally Posted by rosstrtco
, is this about you 
