hmmm... now this is getting complicated In the original story... she wanted to wed but the man was dragging his heals.. now it's changed? You question maybe another man in one of your posts.... has her routine changed?

I think maybe you are trying to read between the lines to much. Also, there's more to life than a wedding... what happens after that?... do you have a serious plan for the future that is achievable? Is she happy with it?