To all SINGLE Filipina Ladies

[Fitzy]

You are all beautiful women (well apart from the ones with a moustache ), and have the upbringing and respect that many UK guys would kill for (hopefully not the present wife to win you over ).

If you haven't found anyone yet, or recently split up, don't worry, time WILL find you someone.

Remember this though, you are the prize that has us guys running to the Philippines to grovel before you, this means you have the upper hand. YOU are in control. If the guy doesn't fit into exactly what YOU want for the rest of your life, move on, the one for you will be along soon after.

Some things that can mean it's the worng guy:

Arguing with you - This is a no no. Small tiffs yes, but not constant arguing, that is NOT happiness, and can lead to resentment & relationship failure.

Always going on about money - Not a good sign at all. If the guy has problems now, he WILL not be able to support you as you should be supported.

Doesn't want to visit you - If they are not gagging to get to you ASAP, dump them. They lack the passion for your relationship.

I'm sure the guys on here can add more advice.

Hahahhaha.

Nice 1 matey.

Well it loks like we will be fine then heheheh

[Fitzy]

Looks like i mean dohhhhhh

[Whisperer]

Hi guys! i just registered and feeling my way.DO NOT TAKE THAT THE WRONG WAY! About the gwapa filipina.Oh my God! Are they real? Oki enough jesting.I agree the filipina are gwapa but why is it i only find those that cannot tell the truth!im not a bad guy,well sometimes.Im residing in Bacolod ad trying to find someone i can trust.Thankyou .Halong

[pacificelectric]

why is it i only find those that cannot tell the truth!

Oh oh, a woman telling the truth, you set your standards too high!

Seriously, what about do you expect the truth?

[ericah.ericah]

Hi guys! i just registered and feeling my way.DO NOT TAKE THAT THE WRONG WAY! About the gwapa filipina.Oh my God! Are they real? Oki enough jesting.I agree the filipina are gwapa but why is it i only find those that cannot tell the truth!im not a bad guy,well sometimes.Im residing in Bacolod ad trying to find someone i can trust.Thankyou .Halong

About the Filipina gwapa, beauty is in the eye of the beholder right? Do you have any problems or shall I say, any bad experiences with women from Bacolod? Please, people lie, some do it moderately i guess, and some has their reasons why they lie.

[trader dave]

there are bad pilipinas as there are bad english husbands theres a lot of distrust and jeliousy at first in a long distance relationship but for me after going over to the phils for the past 10years it is easier to meet a good girl and start a relationship over there than it is to meet from a dating site [but thats only my view ] or a single one in the uk

[trader dave]

and remember ladies we married a naturel pilipina because she is just that unlike a western women so dont change and become WESTERNISED

[aromulus]

and remember ladies we married a naturel pilipina because she is just that unlike a western women so dont change and become WESTERNISED

Sure sign of westernization......

When they stop buying handbags.....

[pacificelectric]

I believe studying the language and learn some basic phrases (magandang gabi, kumusta kana, and the most important 'mahal na mahal kita') can bring you closer to the lady......

[mommyhere]

I believe studying the language and learn some basic phrases (magandang gabi, kumusta kana, and the most important 'mahal na mahal kita') can bring you closer to the lady......

errmm.. not only that..you have to embrace their traditions, culture including the food and how they eat...oh well..the least is 3 x a day, more often its 5 times a day..

Anyone here who was able to watch the film.."My Big Fat Greek Wedding" ???

there are lots of similarities the way we share and enjoy food while being with the whole family and eating loads and loads, as if there will be no tomorrow..kinda amusing, but that's how we do our "family bonding" moments here and of course not to forget the availability fo the videoke:9::9: and san miguel beer, red horse, or Tanduay rhum or Ginebra San Miguel..:

and everybody is a WINNER!!!!

[Tawi2]

I believe studying the language and learn some basic phrases (magandang gabi, kumusta kana, and the most important 'mahal na mahal kita') can bring you closer to the lady......

Good man Pacific,try and learn the basics,one day it just clicks and all the pieces of the puzzle slot into place,you actually understand what the people are saying Live with a family for a few months if you really want to immerse and understand the culture

[Mrs.JMajor]

Good man Pacific,try and learn the basics,one day it just clicks and all the pieces of the puzzle slot into place,you actually understand what the people are saying Live with a family for a few months if you really want to immerse and understand the culture

Thats what your doing eh,

[Tawi2]

Best way to learn about a culture is to bathe in it,figuratively not literally I did the same in Pakistan and China,you cant really learn about a culture unless you live as part of it,but Pacific is taking the first steps in learning the language

[Strangemikan]

You are all beautiful women (well apart from the ones with a moustache ), and have the upbringing and respect that many UK guys would kill for (hopefully not the present wife to win you over ).

If you haven't found anyone yet, or recently split up, don't worry, time WILL find you someone.

Remember this though, you are the prize that has us guys running to the Philippines to grovel before you, this means you have the upper hand. YOU are in control. If the guy doesn't fit into exactly what YOU want for the rest of your life, move on, the one for you will be along soon after.

Some things that can mean it's the worng guy:

Arguing with you - This is a no no. Small tiffs yes, but not constant arguing, that is NOT happiness, and can lead to resentment & relationship failure.

Always going on about money - Not a good sign at all. If the guy has problems now, he WILL not be able to support you as you should be supported.

Doesn't want to visit you - If they are not gagging to get to you ASAP, dump them. They lack the passion for your relationship.

I'm sure the guys on here can add more advice.

Thank you WinWin... I was just wondering about what you mean by "upbringing and respect that many UK guys would kill for "? Sorry if it may seem like a stupid question. Is it because Filipinas are conservative, or there is something more?

I also want to share something...it maybe a little offtopic but hey, I am single...

I have a UK boss, we have known each other for quite some time now, and most of the time we talk about work-related topics...but sometimes we flirt with each other, but it was a clean flirt, if there is one...

Lately, we have been very special to each other, we now share secrets, problems, and other personal topics like, where is he going, what am I doing...and so on...

There was a time when I think I'm falling in love with him...but my happiness was doomed to be short-lived. I learned that he has this 6 year relationship with his high school gf, and that they are living together...I was really devastated at that time...

But I have moved on...I was planning to resign, but I did not since I needed the job (I was working part time)...Sometimes, I feel like I am torturing myself...but I know it will pass...

Last weekend, we had this kind of odd conversation, it is about 5ex. I don't know if I am allowed to use it here... It happened so fast, and to make it a little bit wholesome, we became a little bit bad...not to mention dirty...

I know, I know, it isn't right...I have never done that before...

But now, he wanted to visit Philippines because of me, it is so wrong...he said he wants me badly...but I know that it is not anything close to love, its just something else...I don't know what to do...

I hope someone can help me...I am so 5tupid

I changed my avatar...it used to have my picture...but I...hmp...I guess I am so ashamed of myself...

[Florge]

Thank you WinWin... I was just wondering about what you mean by "upbringing and respect that many UK guys would kill for "? Sorry if it may seem like a stupid question. Is it because Filipinas are conservative, or there is something more?

I also want to share something...it maybe a little offtopic but hey, I am single...

I have a UK boss, we have known each other for quite some time now, and most of the time we talk about work-related topics...but sometimes we flirt with each other, but it was a clean flirt, if there is one...

Lately, we have been very special to each other, we now share secrets, problems, and other personal topics like, where is he going, what am I doing...and so on...

There was a time when I think I'm falling in love with him...but my happiness was doomed to be short-lived. I learned that he has this 6 year relationship with his high school gf, and that they are living together...I was really devastated at that time...

But I have moved on...I was planning to resign, but I did not since I needed the job (I was working part time)...Sometimes, I feel like I am torturing myself...but I know it will pass...

Last weekend, we had this kind of odd conversation, it is about 5ex. I don't know if I am allowed to use it here... It happened so fast, and to make it a little bit wholesome, we became a little bit bad...not to mention dirty...

I know, I know, it isn't right...I have never done that before...

But now, he wanted to visit Philippines because of me, it is so wrong...he said he wants me badly...but I know that it is not anything close to love, its just something else...I don't know what to do...

I hope someone can help me...I am so 5tupid

I changed my avatar...it used to have my picture...but I...hmp...I guess I am so ashamed of myself...

OOOOOOOOOO.... this is not a new story... so, what's wrong if he wants to visit Phils? everyone is welcome to visit... unless it is something that should be a cause for panic on your part?

[Strangemikan]

Florge, what do you mean?

Well, I reckon I don't have anything to be scared of, just the fact that he is coming here only to have "you-know-what" with me. Did I mention he already has a partner for six years?

[Florge]

Florge, what do you mean?

Well, I reckon I don't have anything to be scared of, just the fact that he is coming here only to have "you-know-what" with me. Did I mention he already has a partner for six years?

Ohhhh... hhhmmm... that's a very expensive "you-know-what"... well, if it doesn't feel right for you, then I guess it may not be right indeed. Personally, I trust my instincts and most of the times it was was always right... Only you can decide if you'll go for this arrangement or not.. just be ready with the consequence of your choice. good luck

[Jay&Zobel]

This thread is really old hehe but wow, what an insight!

Girls,

Don't you think that we are so blessed to have our guys who love us as much as we love them? This world has hope still... lol

Just sad to know that some people will do anything for money: scamming etc (but little did they know, that he/she might be the right person).

There is no such thing as "THE PERFECT PERSON"... but be the RIGHT PERSON!


In love as always,

[Strangemikan]

Thanks Jay&Zobel, tama ka, maybe he's just bored...


You look really happy in your pic btw, hope I'll get my own happy ending too...*sigh*

[Jay&Zobel]

Thanks Jay&Zobel, tama ka, maybe he's just bored...

no worries Strangemikan... but of course you will feel "it" right? if it is love or just lust?

this is the best time to use the "Safeguard Soap: Kunsensya " or better known as Gutt feelings...

You look really happy in your pic btw, hope I'll get my own happy ending too...*sigh*

Thank you You will someday too...

[katie37pinayuk]

Thanks Jay&Zobel, tama ka, maybe he's just bored...


You look really happy in your pic btw, hope I'll get my own happy ending too...*sigh*

you will. be rest assured. you are still young. you must only be aware of what you are doing and what you are looking for.

[sysop]

lol .... this thread keeps bumping

I think the original post was something about why filipinas are the best.

Well, here's my shot; they are loving, caring (though they worry to much) and when they first have decided that you "belong" to them, then nothing on earth (or in hell) can change their mind. They always make you believe, that whatever decisions have been made, it was all yours. They would almost never talk about you behind your back - and in case they do, trust me, it will be good things only (unless you're a pig, but then again you wouldn't have taken the time or have the knowledge to register here).

If I should mention bad things, then hmmm...... well, it is my own experience that "city girls" are the ones to look out for. They are a tiny bit too street smart for my taste. If you at some point in time got scammed, I will bet it was a city girl - meaning a girl from one of the big cities like Cebu or Manila area.

[Mrs.JMajor]

l. If you at some point in time got scammed, I will bet it was a city girl - meaning a girl from one of the big cities like Cebu or Manila area.

Oh-uh lol ,you make me laugh arent you,?wait for some city girl reply on you hahaha

[sysop]

Oh-uh lol ,you make me laugh arent you,?wait for some city girl reply on you hahaha

hehe nah not really ..... just my experience, that's all. Life in the cities are different than in the suburbs or "remote" places, so people there have to be more street smart to survive. I understand it perfectly, I just don't approve about it - especially when it goes out on me

[jam07]

If I should mention bad things, then hmmm...... well, it is my own experience that "city girls" are the ones to look out for. They are a tiny bit too street smart for my taste. If you at some point in time got scammed, I will bet it was a city girl - meaning a girl from one of the big cities like Cebu or Manila area.

hey, I'm from the city and i dont do those things.
I would never play at anyone's feeling for money.

I guess my parents brought us up well...

[Queenbee]

lol .... this thread keeps bumping

I think the original post was something about why filipinas are the best.

Well, here's my shot; they are loving, caring (though they worry to much) and when they first have decided that you "belong" to them, then nothing on earth (or in hell) can change their mind. They always make you believe, that whatever decisions have been made, it was all yours. They would almost never talk about you behind your back - and in case they do, trust me, it will be good things only (unless you're a pig, but then again you wouldn't have taken the time or have the knowledge to register here).

If I should mention bad things, then hmmm...... well, it is my own experience that "city girls" are the ones to look out for. They are a tiny bit too street smart for my taste. If you at some point in time got scammed, I will bet it was a city girl - meaning a girl from one of the big cities like Cebu or Manila area.

UMMM sorry bout being scammed but im a city girl meanin from Cebu and have worked abroad, got a good education and brought up real well by my family...I think its really unfair to judge women like me who grew up from big cities...Please dnt strereotype all the women from big cities as we dont stereotype old n young foreign guys just marry women from Asian countries to make them their slaves...

I think it depends on her background n the way she was brought up...Maybe she jst made the wrong choices in life...
peace!

[jam07]

Doesn't want to visit you - If they are not gagging to get to you ASAP, dump them. They lack the passion for your relationship.

what if the guy wants you to visit him instead (all under his expenses), is that an issue?

[Tawi2]

If the guy wants the woman to visit him things get a little more tricky,because 9 times out of 10 there would be stipulations attached to the trip,I know 2 ladies who came to Europe on such stays,both thought it was going to be the precursor to a long and happy married life,both are now languishing back in pinas wondering where it all went wrong

[eleazebonares]

You are all beautiful women (well apart from the ones with a moustache ), and have the upbringing and respect that many UK guys would kill for (hopefully not the present wife to win you over ).

If you haven't found anyone yet, or recently split up, don't worry, time WILL find you someone.

Remember this though, you are the prize that has us guys running to the Philippines to grovel before you, this means you have the upper hand. YOU are in control. If the guy doesn't fit into exactly what YOU want for the rest of your life, move on, the one for you will be along soon after.

Some things that can mean it's the worng guy:

Arguing with you - This is a no no. Small tiffs yes, but not constant arguing, that is NOT happiness, and can lead to resentment & relationship failure.

Always going on about money - Not a good sign at all. If the guy has problems now, he WILL not be able to support you as you should be supported.

Doesn't want to visit you - If they are not gagging to get to you ASAP, dump them. They lack the passion for your relationship.

I'm sure the guys on here can add more advice.

amen! !

[Queenbee]

You are all beautiful women (well apart from the ones with a moustache ), and have the upbringing and respect that many UK guys would kill for (hopefully not the present wife to win you over ).

If you haven't found anyone yet, or recently split up, don't worry, time WILL find you someone.

Remember this though, you are the prize that has us guys running to the Philippines to grovel before you, this means you have the upper hand. YOU are in control. If the guy doesn't fit into exactly what YOU want for the rest of your life, move on, the one for you will be along soon after.

Some things that can mean it's the worng guy:

Arguing with you - This is a no no. Small tiffs yes, but not constant arguing, that is NOT happiness, and can lead to resentment & relationship failure.

Always going on about money - Not a good sign at all. If the guy has problems now, he WILL not be able to support you as you should be supported.

Doesn't want to visit you - If they are not gagging to get to you ASAP, dump them. They lack the passion for your relationship.

I'm sure the guys on here can add more advice.

LOVE THIS!!!!BOSS UR AMAZING,U TRULY KNO wHAT wOMEN wANT!