To all SINGLE Filipina Ladies

[KeithD]

You are all beautiful women (well apart from the ones with a moustache ), and have the upbringing and respect that many UK guys would kill for (hopefully not the present wife to win you over ).

If you haven't found anyone yet, or recently split up, don't worry, time WILL find you someone.

Remember this though, you are the prize that has us guys running to the Philippines to grovel before you, this means you have the upper hand. YOU are in control. If the guy doesn't fit into exactly what YOU want for the rest of your life, move on, the one for you will be along soon after.

Some things that can mean it's the worng guy:

Arguing with you - This is a no no. Small tiffs yes, but not constant arguing, that is NOT happiness, and can lead to resentment & relationship failure.

Always going on about money - Not a good sign at all. If the guy has problems now, he WILL not be able to support you as you should be supported.

Doesn't want to visit you - If they are not gagging to get to you ASAP, dump them. They lack the passion for your relationship.

I'm sure the guys on here can add more advice.

[Marwin08]

Boss Keith,your brilliant.Your definitely right boss.And i would take this advice of yours into my heart and mind for me not to commit mistakes again.

[tomm]

Boss Keith,your brilliant.Your definitely right boss.And i would take this advice of yours into my heart and mind for me not to commit mistakes again.

What aromulus has said to you is very true. Good luck

[Mrs.JMajor]

Boss Keith,your brilliant.Your definitely right boss.And i would take this advice of yours into my heart and mind for me not to commit mistakes again.

jaywin...ur still young...i found my true love at the age of 40....so be patient..u will be alright...and seeing your picture...your fine...

[tomm]

Ladies, I think what the boss said is right

Here's my take.

Arguing: A good relationship needs a good foundation. Arguing and 'trying to hold it together' at the start is not a good foundation. ...time to run!

Money: Any man who is serious will have an idea of how much he will have to spend to pull it off. Some guys will be sailing pretty close to the wind but that doesn't mean they can't support you. Being careful with money shouldn't be taken as a sign he is broke... maybe he's just being sensible which should be seen as a quality. However, if he's struggling financially to make the first trip to PI... he ain't got a hope of funding the rest.

Doesn't want to visit: Yes, he should be gagging to get to you... and you should feel the same. Also, a relationship naturally has to move forward or it will starve. However, you do need to consider his work commitments. Don't assume he can drop everything, fly half way round the world, so you can leap into his arms like the scene in Armageddon! Personally, I would ask right at the start with all the other questions... but tactfully.. like, 'if he met a girl he liked, would he visit her and when?'. If he answers 2/3 months for example, hold him to it, then if he starts making excuses .... time to run!

Good luck to you all

[silver13]

Take the good advice from the boss, he is definitely right Arguing isn't healthy especially in a long distance relationship. If he is always going on money this is not so good, later on, that will be the cause of failure in the relationship.

Yeah i believe that a man should have the initiative to visit you in PI, but if he says he can't visit you at early stage, give him a chance because some guys although they can afford to visit you or cantravel immediately, they just want to test you. Anyway he if truly up to you, he will travel to visit you sooner, this is from my own experience

Good luck to all.

[steadyfornow]

Ladies, I think what the boss said is right

Here's my take.

Arguing: A good relationship needs a good foundation. Arguing and 'trying to hold it together' at the start is not a good foundation. ...time to run!

Money: Any man who is serious will have an idea of how much he will have to spend to pull it off. Some guys will be sailing pretty close to the wind but that doesn't mean they can't support you. Being careful with money shouldn't be taken as a sign he is broke... maybe he's just being sensible which should be seen as a quality. However, if he's struggling financially to make the first trip to PI... he ain't got a hope of funding the rest.

Doesn't want to visit: Yes, he should be gagging to get to you... and you should feel the same. Also, a relationship naturally has to move forward or it will starve. However, you do need to consider his work commitments. Don't assume he can drop everything, fly half way round the world, so you can leap into his arms like the scene in Armageddon! Personally, I would ask right at the start with all the other questions... but tactfully.. like, 'if he met a girl he liked, would he visit her and when?'. If he answers 2/3 months for example, hold him to it, then if he starts making excuses .... time to run!

Good luck to you all

the only problem that i can forsee with my bf would be..statement no.2..about the MONEY..the only thing that hinders us from our plans is his financial capability..i do believe he loves me and there's no doubt in what i feel for him..we keep on setting dates for our plans but its constantly changing bec of his financial capabilty..he doesnt support me financialy but that doesnt matter all i want is for us to be together..i know this might just be a test for us..and i would want to stick with him no matter what..but i cant deny that this is already frustrating..and its sad to see him down and sad because of this problem..he is working as a chef..and sometimes i cant help but wonder how other people can manage to save up just to make their relationship work..but on a second thought he's been changing jobs just to make it all work..so i know it will all happen because i can see the effort but the only question is when..now.im trying to check if there is any way for me to go to UK using my own options..bec i really dont know how long do i have to wait if i will just sit here and do nothing..

[LadyJ]

Eh?! only single ladies are beautiful?? What about us, married ladies?

Good advice Doctor Love

[trina]

Eh?! only single ladies are beautiful?? What about us, married ladies?

Good advice Doctor Love

oo nga.....What about us??????

[katie37pinayuk]

You are all beautiful women

If you haven't found anyone yet, or recently split up, don't worry, time WILL find you someone.

Some things that can mean it's the worng guy:

i really would like to believe this...after a split-up

[nigel]

i really would like to believe this...after a split-up

Awww you split? What happened lol?

[katie37pinayuk]

Awww you split? What happened lol?

why laugh nigel... maybe i was just hanging around with the wrong guy for a long time and i missed the right one...or maybe there is something wrong with me...i don't know

[nigel]

why laugh nigel... maybe i was just hanging around with the wrong guy for a long time and i missed the right one...or maybe there is something wrong with me...i don't know

But I meant LOL as in Lot's Of Love!

This post was a year ago and I'm crying about the misunderstanding now!

Actually.. It's a hilarious misunderstanding I guess! Hehe

[katie37pinayuk]

But I meant LOL as in Lot's Of Love!

This post was a year ago and I'm crying about the misunderstanding now!

Actually.. It's a hilarious misunderstanding I guess! Hehe

let it go Nigel hehe. i was sensitive then ... heart and brain were crashed then. i found mr. right ( i hope) and very happy at the moment so i have my brain and heart working again i guess

[Norwichguy]

Hi,the right one might just have emailed you!

[Mrs.JMajor]

Awww you split? What happened lol?

split on the floor ---------

[aromulus]

for me not to commit mistakes again.

You haven't "committed" anything.
The guy was very insecure and unwilling to work to make a success of the partnership.
You are lucky that it didn't go any further.
It could have been disaster.

i really would like to believe this...after a split-up

You better believe it.......
The right person for you, is out there waiting....... only that he doesn't know yet.....

[\\\ElizaTony///]

wat happen

[Mrs.JMajor]

You are all beautiful women (well apart from the ones with a moustache ), and have the upbringing and respect that many UK guys would kill for (hopefully not the present wife to win you over ).

If you haven't found anyone yet, or recently split up, don't worry, time WILL find you someone.

Remember this though, you are the prize that has us guys running to the Philippines to grovel before you, this means you have the upper hand. YOU are in control. If the guy doesn't fit into exactly what YOU want for the rest of your life, move on, the one for you will be along soon after.

Some things that can mean it's the worng guy:

Arguing with you - This is a no no. Small tiffs yes, but not constant arguing, that is NOT happiness, and can lead to resentment & relationship failure.

Always going on about money - Not a good sign at all. If the guy has problems now, he WILL not be able to support you as you should be supported.

Doesn't want to visit you - If they are not gagging to get to you ASAP, dump them. They lack the passion for your relationship.

I'm sure the guys on here can add more advice.

wow,i just always read funny jokes from you.... but now u have great word to advice well never realize that u can be cupid

[kimmi]

talking by experience Boss?he he he he

what about the advise for in a relationship with a British guy?what to expect or anything?

[LEAHnew]

Sounds my dad

Boss you’re such a caring and protective admin…

In my situation we don’t argue my Bf made me feel I’m always right even I got mad at him…(Mostly from misunderstanding)
Knowing him almost 2 years I’ve been aware to his ups and down coz we started friends.
The first time he didn’t make it to visit me I was so disappointed
but knowing his reasons really made my heart soften and more supportive and more inlove with him…
Financial and emotional support he’s there for me even miles away…The only thing is to give him time to finally meet me ..…
if that won’t happen 2-3 months starting now I’ll run then (Kidding beb)
like the always saying move on and let’s see things turn out.

Life is so short so live to the fullest…No worries ... just stay happy and remain positive thinking!

To my kukupops I want you to know that I love you so much ..
oh btw thanks for replacing my mobile

[KeithD]

A big difference between arguing & misunderstanding which will always happen when different cultures collide. Which is why each other should read this & this. These are excellent books.

[joebloggs]

A big difference between arguing & misunderstanding which will always happen when different cultures collide. Which is why each other should read this & this. These are excellent books.

i thought they were books on racing tips

number 1 cause of arguments or lack of it

[Mrs.JMajor]

i thought they were books on racing tips

number 1 cause of arguments or lack of it

[LEAHnew]

i thought they were books on racing tips

I thought as well


Thanks Boss for the link I'll tell my kukupops to add it on my pasalubong list

[burf316]

A big difference between arguing & misunderstanding which will always happen when different cultures collide. Which is why each other should read this & this. These are excellent books.

Who is the author??? Is it available here in the Philippines?
I hope I can find it in National Bookstore... ^_^

[Terpe]

Who is the author??? Is it available here in the Philippines?
I hope I can find it in National Bookstore... ^_^

If you click on each of the highlighted hyperlinks "this" you will see all details revealed.

[KeithD]

It pays for all our holidays

[lavander]

dear win2win,
your advise really does something to everyone here at the forum...
well, as per my case, maybe u can help me find my special one...
am still waiting for him...

r u there mr. unknown?, give me a hint where to find you!..you must been hiding all your life

lavander

[telford]

nice advice po!!!