You are all beautiful women (well apart from the ones with a moustache
), and have the upbringing and respect that many UK guys would kill for (hopefully not the present wife to win you over
)....
Some things that can mean it's the worng guy:
Arguing with you - This is a no no. Small tiffs yes, but not constant arguing, that is NOT happiness, and can lead to resentment & relationship failure.
Always going on about money - Not a good sign at all. If the guy has problems now, he WILL not be able to support you as you should be supported.
Doesn't want to visit you - If they are not gagging to get to you ASAP, dump them. They lack the passion for your relationship.
I'm sure the guys on here can add more advice.