Looking for advice for a possible overly sensitive guy!

[Mrs.JMajor]

just be a lawyer kimmi,more sensible

[kimmi]

oh no u knew about it also???he he he

[andypaul]

[quote=rabb5it;54936]

And don't worry, I'm no angel. I've even been arrested and threatened with the birch in your country.

quote]

The Birch wow thats a long time ago i think 1948 birching was banned in the Uk or did you cause a riot in the Prison before 1962?

[kimmi]

And don't worry, I'm no angel. I've even been arrested and threatened with the birch in your country.

The Birch wow thats a long time ago i think 1948 birching was banned in the Uk or did you cause a riot in the Prison before 1962?

[DaveUK]

Dave, I don't think it's generally perceived that sensitive people associate with bargirls. I would have assumed they would take a more cautious, thoughtful approach to their actions. To consider the greater picture in any given circumstance. In this case the morals, the dangers, the health hazards, the supply & demand scenario etc. Look at the psychological effect this had had on you. Perhaps you don't have psychological capacity to back up your physical actions.

And don't worry, I'm no angel. I've even been arrested and threatened with the birch in your country.

I really hope this is all some help in analysing yourself, your actions and going forward.

Hold on a minute! Apart from the fact, you're attempting to dish out advice long after the fact, I think you're focusing way too much on the sensitive part of the subject title of this thread!

What are you talking about when you go on about having the pychological capacity to deal with it?!? For me, it was just more a case of naievity, brought about by a lack of experience in dealing with bar girls! Nothing more, nothing less! Ok, I made a mistake in falling for one! But who hasn't fallen for someone (and I don't mean a bar girl) who is obviously not good for them!

If you've actually bothered to read this whole thread properly, you will see, thanks to the advice from everybody on this forum at the time I started this thread, I've now learnt a great deal! I'm less naive, a little more wiser, and also very appreciative of the advice given to me!

I'm now also well into the process of moving on from this part of my life, so thanks for your attempt at advice, but I think it's a case of too little, too late!

[joebloggs]

dave your right, you trusted someone who let you down, i'm sure thats happened to everyone at sometime, and worse is when you let yourself down..

nothing wrong with being sensitive or trusting, 2 good qualities in a person.


and as for hindsight

“Hindsight explains the injury that foresight would have prevented”.

and

“May you have the hindsight to know where you've been, The foresight to know where you are going, And the insight to know when you have gone too far”

[baboyako]

what did you eat for breakfast joe?

[aromulus]

dave your right, you trusted someone who let you down, i'm sure thats happened to everyone at sometime, and worse is when you let yourself down..

nothing wrong with being sensitive or trusting, 2 good qualities in a person.


and as for hindsight

“Hindsight explains the injury that foresight would have prevented”.

and

“May you have the hindsight to know where you've been, The foresight to know where you are going, And the insight to know when you have gone too far”

what did you eat for breakfast joe?

If a bacon butty does that to a vegetarian, I will go out and buy myself a piggery.....

[LadyJ]

Yay! seems like this is the longest thread on the forum!

[Mrs.JMajor]

sorry about that,i was teasing about the page 6 and then when i replied on kimmi,i'm the one who started a page 6, i'm gonna make a rally not to make this post on page7,or boss close this thread joking

[rabb5it]

The Birch wow thats a long time ago i think 1948 birching was banned in the Uk or did you cause a riot in the Prison before 1962?[/QUOTE]

To my knowledge, Corpral punishment and capital punishment for murder is still enforcable in the Isle of Man. Am I also right in thinking the IOM isn't part of the UK?

[joebloggs]

If a bacon butty does that to a vegetarian, I will go out and buy myself a piggery.....

i think i drank too much apple tango that day


meat is murder - the Smiths

[DaveUK]

The Birch wow thats a long time ago i think 1948 birching was banned in the Uk or did you cause a riot in the Prison before 1962?

To my knowledge, Corpral punishment and capital punishment for murder is still enforcable in the Isle of Man. Am I also right in thinking the IOM isn't part of the UK?[/QUOTE]

You're right, it's not technically part of the UK, just geographically.

[kimmi]

are we going to make a new thread now about Corporal and capital punishment??because i think its not related about bieng sensitive, what do u think Dave??

[DaveUK]

Hah Hah! I'm not sure! I'd be a bit sensitive if they tried capital punishment on me! :-)

[kimmi]

[rabb5it]

To my knowledge, Corpral punishment and capital punishment for murder is still enforcable in the Isle of Man. Am I also right in thinking the IOM isn't part of the UK?

You're right, it's not technically part of the UK, just geographically.[/QUOTE]

I've been to the IOM thrice Dave, it's a beautiful island. I first went when I went to the Easter Athletics festival in Douglas in 1975. Is it still held there? Another two visits saw me walking much of the coastline. Just loved the places & the people & the quieter pace of life. I hope to return.

[andypaul]

For those Phills worried they might try to hang you if you vist the lovely island and drop some litter. Also because i was nosey to see if they were allowed .
If the Judge puts on a Black cap.

You should be ok just quote protcol nbr 13 and make sure he or she knows its after 1-11-2006 and even if they did pass it, the sentence would get commuted to life imprisoment (which means your be out in a few years most likely) as no way would the British goverment allow them to do it. As they have done in recent history, when the judgement was handed out.

Corporal punsihment has also been abolished it seems, so it should be safe for scousers and dodgy londoners to go there.

A bit more googling showed that the easter festival is still running

http://www.iomtoday.co.im/sport/East...val.3793220.jp

Still time for all the sporty Phill uk types to get there entries in

[kimmi]

sorry about that,i was teasing about the page 6 and then when i replied on kimmi,i'm the one who started a page 6, i'm gonna make a rally not to make this post on page7,or boss close this thread joking

Ate Juliet, i think there will be a page 8 with this thread..

[Alan]

I say 'Bring back hanging in schools for disruptive pupils!'

That should be enough to get this thread to 8 pages (or more.)

Al.

[kimmi]

[wobblybob]

Hi Dave, yes many of us been through similar things and not only with filipina's, don't give up though mate, go out to the Phils have a good time, you don't need to go to the bars to meeta girl just smile at in the shops in the Mall, there are plenty of ovely ladies there, you don't have to meet them through the internet but it is way of getting to know them on a deeper level.
Just get out there enjoy it and be cautious. There are 000's of great looking girls waiting to fall in love with a guy like you over there and the majority of them are genuine.

[jimcarie]

I say 'Bring back hanging in schools for disruptive pupils!'

That should be enough to get this thread to 8 pages (or more.)

Al.

im sure happy i wasnt at your school sir

[KeithD]

Alan used to work in Jersey

[Mrs.JMajor]

Hi Dave, yes many of us been through similar things and not only with filipina's, don't give up though mate, go out to the Phils have a good time, you don't need to go to the bars to meeta girl just smile at in the shops in the Mall, there are plenty of ovely ladies there, you don't have to meet them through the internet but it is way of getting to know them on a deeper level.
Just get out there enjoy it and be cautious. There are 000's of great looking girls waiting to fall in love with a guy like you over there and the majority of them are genuine.

what a nice words wob

[Jonnywina]

dave did you ever visit phils?

what a story

[DaveUK]

Yeah, I did cheers mate. Got back last Monday after 2 great weeks! Met up with an amazing woman who I've been chatting to online and texting for the last few months.

It's kind of made this whole episode of my life worth the pain I went through as it lead me first to this forum, and then thanks to a new friend I made on here, lead me to my new lady! :-)

[Mrs.JMajor]

wow this thread live again

congratz simon wish u and yam good luck and hope this time went okay to both

of you

[DaveUK]

Cheers jedc143 :-)

[Piamed]

Glad things are working out for you Dave!