Looking for advice for a possible overly sensitive guy!

[DaveUK]

Anna never told me it was her plan. I've still had no contact with her! Her friend told me she was upset when I left which to be honest was what I thought I already knew.

For the 2 weeks after I got back to the UK and Anna was still in HK, we would chat every night for about 4 hours, most times with her in tears and drunk because she missed me. She also reckoned she wasn't working because she was so upset, which given the times we were talking on the phone, I believed her.

It was another friend who told me last night that it was Anna's plan from the start to get money out of me! Don't know if the first friend knew that or not, but to be honest, I don't think I'd believe her if she said she didn't know! Then again, bizarrely her first friend asked me to be the godfather to her son and Anna to be the godmother, so I don't know what that says about the whole thing!

[baboyako]

well, you just can't give her up - can you? so you'd better start collecting the visa evidence..

[joebloggs]

4hrs on a phone a night , it was many years b4 i started to phone me misses and thats when i came across a voda pone , i'm sure scouser keith would know about the nec p3 mobile

you've talked to her friend, scammers wouldn't let you do that, like i said, i think you've been used by her, maybe your all the options she had to get bac k home, see her family and go back to HK again. her not replying to you, maybe she thinks your better off without her or the guilt has got to her, what she did to you. i don't know how she does what she does, but then many couldn't understand, but some will do anything they have to , to feed thier family and i'm not calling anyone while sat in the uk working and getting benefits for childcare...

where does this leave you, shes not talking to you, not much you can do dave...

as for her friend, some friend she is !! snitching on her, maybe its true or she just said it to make you feel better and try to get over her..

sometimes its not easy to walk away badboyako, no matter how much you try,, i've been there

[Les_lady888]

Wow I really thought it's only melodramatic filipinas who find it too difficult to walk away from a soiled love relationship...
<<<for those guys who are honest enough to share their love woes and hurt feelings.

[DaveUK]

4hrs on a phone a night , it was many years b4 i started to phone me misses and thats when i came across a voda pone , i'm sure scouser keith would know about the nec p3 mobile

you've talked to her friend, scammers wouldn't let you do that, like i said, i think you've been used by her, maybe your all the options she had to get bac k home, see her family and go back to HK again. her not replying to you, maybe she thinks your better off without her or the guilt has got to her, what she did to you. i don't know how she does what she does, but then many couldn't understand, but some will do anything they have to , to feed thier family and i'm not calling anyone while sat in the uk working and getting benefits for childcare...

where does this leave you, shes not talking to you, not much you can do dave...

as for her friend, some friend she is !! snitching on her, maybe its true or she just said it to make you feel better and try to get over her..

sometimes its not easy to walk away badboyako, no matter how much you try,, i've been there

Well, after sending her the e-mail the other day saying I'd forgiven her as I believed she must of had a reason other than to scam me from the start, I then sent her a crappy text message last night with a couple of verbal slaps. Ok, I guess I was being bitter as I'd just heard from her friend about Anna scamming me from the start, but it was how I felt at the time!

Of course an hour or so later, I re-read an e-mail Anna had sent me one night while she was still in HK saying how she was upset and didn't know how the relationship could last as she was struggling to trust me! It also said she was try her best and she was sorry for putting this worry on me and she'd get through it! Once I read that, it got me thinking again! So I ended up replying to that e-mail asking her did she mean any of it! Again, I don't expect a reply!

[joebloggs]

trust you , maybe shes been let down in the past

many things i could have said to my now wife, but i didn't, i knew one day i would regret it if i did.. trusting her now could be a problem for you thou, but time is a great healer thou...