like me and my husband planning when i gave birth to my baby he send me back home to philippines so that my family can see my baby, he said im gonna stay there for 3months and i said to him WHY 3months its a long time and i can't live without you and even just one night i can't sleep without you,HE SAID so do i,and he said for the sake of my family he need to do it beside i'll stay longer here than to my family in PI thats why WE need to sacrifice, anyway he will follow me in christmas time and we go home together by january