Originally posted by Eljohno@Mar 9 2006, 08:08 PM
Yes i agree that we both need to work for a while as i am sure just getting used to another culture is going to be difficult enough although we are both keen to start a family before to long.
Unless of course my work gave me a huge rise
Well you never know rearding the Pay riseunless your Wife as something lined up already i doubt for the first few months if she will be ready to take on a job.
The first few weeks my Wife was gettin over her jet lag and coming to terms with the different weather etc. My Wife also was scared to go out on her own in case she got lost. Even though all the surrounding area looked fairly familair has i had shot videos of the local area for her to watch.
The first few weeks my Wife was only making trips to the local corner shops on her own then supermarkets in our local high street.
Now after almost five months she is commuting to the next town on her own for her work and planing a trip with a fellow Phill lady to Earls court on their own.
We western people take all these things in our stride and im sure our Wives are just if not more capable than us to do the same but it does take time.
Looking for a Job is also sometimes hard for Phill ladies as my Wife had no experience of formal interviews or writing CVs etc. Your support and of course the boards support is vital.
