at first (4 years ago) I did think that, but as I begun to understand her make up, Filipino societal baehaviours etc a bit better I realised that it was not going to change sifgnificantly so when I encounter it now I just start to re trace my actions( or non actions) and what I said( or did not say/do in the last 24 hours and I usually get it and slap myself for not being so attentive or caring or thoughtful as she is
