hi dave just take it slow there lots out there best for you is chat to alot of tham dont just chat to one a lot will say i love you after afew chats a ture one will not say this what i did when i was looking for my soulmate was chat to lots of tham and you find a ture one in the end just say im here to win your heart and the ture ones wil be around if thay like you you will know on cam it thay not ture and phone tham out the blue good luck