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[vinmer]

Thanks everyone for your replies, it is comforting to know that all of you genuinely wish us well. It is a great help to have such differing views. I thought that my circumstances would come under most scrutiny for the visitors visa but i now understand the reasons why they are difficult to obtain.My only problem with going to the Philippines is that I am totally petrified of flying, so silly, i know, but we really want this to work so I guess I am going to have to get over it and fly!!! I am happy to have found this site and thanks again for all your support and advice

[aromulus]

My only problem with going to the Philippines is that I am totally petrified of flying, so silly, i know, but we really want this to work so I guess I am going to have to get over it and fly!!!

Statistically speaking, flying in a plane is much safer than driving a car.
And you get fed and watered along the way....

If you plan your trip properly, you will suffer minimal discomfort through jetlag.

You will like the experience of visiting the Philippines so much that you will want to book another trip, as soon as you get back home...

Good luck