Thank you all for your advice.
I was 98% heading for a Philippines wedding for the reasons listed in mupsuit reply. I just needed the push in the right direction.
And thank you to admin for posting all the links, I will look at them at the weekend when I have more time to take the information in.
I know Anne would miss her family and we have talk at length about this. With her already having the internet in the home I am planning to install a broadband service for her family so we can use the Skype video phone better. We are also planning to return to her family a few times a year. But if she does not like it here at all then once I have sorted out things here in the UK then I would sell up and move to the Philippines. I know this will be hard for me a little but my home is worth a hell of a lot more then what I paid for it before the boom of 2000.
As in Anne’s favourite song says “Love will find away”
Again I thank you all and keep up the good work.