I'm Starting To Feel Like An ATM

[joebloggs]

sorry to hear you've been used Wai,

but your not the first and your not going to be the last,

as for sending money, is there anyone here how hasn't sent money to their filipina g/f , I would have thought most of us have, you just met the wrong gal Wai.

i pitty her daughter, shouldn't drag her in all this.

[fred]

Contrary to popular belief..These girls are human beings.
22 years ago I owned a beauty parlour in an area amongst these bars .
I knew a lot of these bar girls and some of them became really good friends (just that I hasten to add)..
Lots of them of as you might expect were hard and pretentious .Others were genuine and very nice generous characters. Genuine friends.
Some of our customers that I knew from our parlour married foreigners and settled down into long term relationships whilst others went totally off the rails. There were girls that would drink two bottles of cough mixture whilst having their manicures to quell their nerves before going to work and others that loved their work and were full of confidence.. They all had their own reasons and excuses for doing what they did but I never once heared any of them complain or bitch about their lives..
To say that none of them were/are marriage material is not correct ,however..Handle with care!
Some of them are pretty messed up.

[andypaul]

Contrary to popular belief..These girls are human beings.
22 years ago I owned a beauty parlour in an area amongst these bars .
I knew a lot of these bar girls and some of them became really good friends (just that I hasten to add)..
Lots of them of as you might expect were hard and pretentious .Others were genuine and very nice generous characters. Genuine friends.
Some of our customers that I knew from our parlour married foreigners and settled down into long term relationships whilst others went totally off the rails. There were girls that would drink two bottles of cough mixture whilst having their manicures to quell their nerves before going to work and others that loved their work and were full of confidence.. They all had their own reasons and excuses for doing what they did but I never once heared any of them complain or bitch about their lives..
To say that none of them were/are marriage material is not correct ,however..Handle with care!
Some of them are pretty messed up.

Wow good post.

Its funny how many mates who were off the rails when younger up to alsorts Drugs, bother with the old bill, the list goes on.

Are now respectable members of the public with loving families, members of the golf club. While others just went of the rails, not always the people you thought it would be as well.

I have also seen mates who were in very settled and stable lives have alsorts of problems and issues out of the blue due to their past.

Slighty different reasons why the "Issues" which may affect the person first start but it is something you would need to be aware of and like fred says be prepared for anything are you strong enough to deal with some one who could have such major problems?

From what i have seen its not so much the one who suffers the Issues who has the worst time, it is those around them particularly their partner who if not able to deal with the situation come off worse in the end.

[ginapeterb]

Fred has told us exactly what we said.

Some of them are pretty messed up handle with care.

Or :

Dont try !

"You can take a girl out of the bar, but not take the bar lifestyle out of the girl"

[joebloggs]

i've watched a few tv programs on bars girls, sex resorts, etc, for research purposes only, wondering why some girls sell themselves to anyone who pays the going rate, and why most girls would never consider doing it.

sure its for money, but like fred said, many have problems, women mainly become involved as a last resort and out of desperation, for many addiction to drugs forces them to earn money in any way they can.

i remember one prostitute saying each time she had sex with a punter, it would take part of her soul away, and when she had nothing left, she felt no longer like a human being, and had to get out and quit.

some people forget, it could be someone from your own family, your own daughter or sister, i've lived with a drug addict for many years, and it changes people, the destruction it causes not just for them, but the whole family, they are not the same person that they once was, many end up an empty shell, walking zombies..

[fred]

Joe..Its different here with these asian bar girls..
I remember the girls getting angry and jealous in our parlour when they saw or heard of one of their previous bar fines with another Kano!!
It was almost as if they were their personal possessions and belonged to them.
The kanos that played around were labelled as "butterflies" (cheaters) and soon got a bad name.. Where ever these guys went there were wagging fingers!
Could you imagine that happening in Manchester!!

[joebloggs]

well i've watched a tv program, it showed thai bar girls, and they were fighting each other a lot over money and punters,

i think some people here might be a bit at what goes on in their street totally unaware, not far from me, cops raided a sauna place, freeing some eastern european gals forced into prostitution. my friend tells me not far from that place is a swingers club

[KeithD]

....swingers club

...Monkies?

[joebloggs]

...Monkies?

i never liked the monkees. they all looked

[fred]

Joe..dont try to compare Thai`s with Filipino`s..
The best way I could accurately describe the diffence would be by comparing someone like Keith with lets say...Charles Asnovoir

[joebloggs]

Joe..dont try to compare Thai`s with Filipino`s..
The best way I could accurately describe the diffence would be by comparing someone like Keith with lets say...Charles Asnovoir

who's the keith



Fred you said "Joe..Its different here with these asian bar girls"

why can you not compare, asian or not, a bar gal is a bar gal and filipino and thai are both asian.

[KeithD]

....comparing someone like Keith with lets say...Charles Asnovoir

I've got more talent

[Mrs.JMajor]

I've got more talent

u really such smart --

[fred]

why can you not compare, asian or not, a bar gal is a bar gal and filipino and thai are both asian.

English and French are both European..
I rest my case.

Charles Aznovoir

Dont you remember this on top of the pops Joe?

..From your era anyway.

[joebloggs]

from my era

look grandpa fred, , your older than me, not saying how much thou


i see what you mean, you have a frog trying to speak english and a scouser trying to speak english


not my type of song, if i ever hear it in the phils, i know its you and to and miss out on me drink of orange..

i like this better

http://www.zippyvideos.com/810456645...l_vanmorrison/

if you hear that playing or mr weller , you know its me...

to me brown eyed misses and browned eyed little joe, ( only thing little joe got from the misses is light brown hair and brown eyes )

[andypaul]

who's the keith



Fred you said "Joe..Its different here with these asian bar girls"

why can you not compare, asian or not, a bar gal is a bar gal and filipino and thai are both asian.

From what i know Thais and Phills are very different Religion, culture, foods Thais have not be infulenced in the past so much by other nations due to colonisation as Phill has.

[jimeve]

You can still get a MacDonald's in both countries, served with rice of course.

[robeth]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9GKzbyaEPGY

[kimmi]

I am sorry for what happened to u Wai..its her lost..Cheers mate..

[KeithD]

..Cheers mate..

You're turning into a scouser

[kimmi]

I will be Boss.. is that a warm welcome for me??he he he he

[KewLan]

lots of fish in the sea to choose from. dont waste your time on someone youre not even sure about.

[alicat]

when my husband propose to me,i said to him from the begining its not just me,you need to marry the rest of my family as well...and he said yes.
so every mounth we send money to phil.

[fred]

when my husband propose to me,i said to him from the begining its not just me,you need to marry the rest of my family as well...and he said yes.

I said exactly the same thing to my wife.
I lied.

[joebloggs]

I said exactly the same thing to my wife.
I lied.

well i wasn't told that, but then i'm lucky , i've not seen her family for near 3 years now


oh

[sam_althea]

simply, she doesn't have DELICADEZA

[scott&ligaya]

Hi there Wei goren,
like the others said sorry you were scammed. If you are not totally put off Filipinas and other Asain ladies and you would like to meet a domestic helper rather than a bar girl, might I suggest that you get yourself along on a Sunday afternoon to the Wanchai Hash House Harriers a running/socialising mixed group of ex pats and their partners/wifes/girlfriends. As the founders many years ago had Filipina partners they specifically set their run time on Sunday so they could encourage Filipinas to come along on their day off. This is still the case and you will meet some very pleasant ladies, bar girls cannot get up before 3pmand certainly do not want to koging over Hong Kongs hills. Not to say that some there are not looking for a boyfriend/ATM but at least you have a chance!!

their web site is wanchaih3.com

go to the hareline for details of their next run location

good luck

[sam_althea]

next time hang the sign..."OFFLINE"

[Juana]

as for sending money, is there anyone here how hasn't sent money to their filipina g/f ,

I haven't received a single penny from my husband when i was still in the Phils and I even had to shoulder my ticket to come to UK. Kuripot!!!

When in UK, i realized he's got himself in a financial mess (Odd loans here and there + credit cards) and now im helping him to sort it all out.

waaah! Take me back to the Phils!!!

[ervenescence]

waaah! Take me back to the Phils!!!

Haha, theres no scape