Thanks a lot guys. I spoke with my gf last night - I am mistaken in his job - he is a prison guard in Panabo, Davao Del Sur. I spoke with her brother too - and he confirmed that, and that her husband will not intervene in her life.
I think it is a case of treading carefully, keeping a low profile, and maybe taking a trip elsewhere in the Phils.
*edited place of his work
