Ady
I don't wish to have a pop at you, but how is it you could have got the husband's occupation so wrong, you told us all he was a Police Officer, now you tell us, actually you were not sure ?
He turns out to be a Prison guard, we all gave you advice, including my wife standing over my shoulder, thinking he was a Police officer.
The advice we gave may have sounded alarmist, but we had good reason for giving it, now I kind of feel I went over the top, because you told us he is a Police officer.
Please mate, and this is for you and many others who post on here, it would be better to have your facts right before you post for advice and general commentary.
I for one do not like to give strong advice to people based on incorrect factual situations, it kind of winds me up if you can understand that.
I doubt whether you will have any trouble if he is a Prison guard, and if he is so far away working in Davao del Sur the only thing you should watch out for is jealous cousins, who see you with the lady, they will be your worst problems, if someone is jealous of the attention you are giving the lady.
Often jealous cousins or friends are the very ones who shop you to the wrong people.
