TurkeyOriginally Posted by tomm
Turkey
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this would worry me, he might not want her to chat with you in case she says something, he and you will not like, maybe she doesn't even know about you
i've never meet a british woman who was too shy to chat online
i think of that too joethis would worry me, he might not want her to chat with you in case she says something, he and you will not like
i've never meet a british woman who was too shy to chat online
Hi guys,
I appreciate all your comments. I have to admit that you guys have strong points. It almost made me give up on loving him. I feel like I'm stabbing him in the back and I dont like feeling that way.
I have come to realize that love without trust is not love at all. I love him with all my heart and I should accept the fact that she will always be a part of him.
If we are meant to be together, the distance between us not matter as we will find a way to be together. I wish that in time, I will have the same realationships you have with your wives and girlfriends.
Thank you guys.
What a bootiful replyTurkey
u know what u should forget him and find someone who is true and sincere.i dont think he's not someone that u could trust.even though its been awhile that you've known each other he should have been serious and sincere by now.i think he's not committed to u yet.it would be hard for you but it would be much harder if you suffer from being jealous and he doesnt even care about it.well its not the end of the world.im sure there's someone who deserves you not someone who will make you jealous and just play with you! good luck and be positive!
hi , i just read this thread n my thoughts here r that jealousy without foundation is unreasonable n childish, however jealousy with total foundation is absolutely natural n its not jealousy really but well-founded suspicion!!! who wouldnt b suspicious with all this ex here n ex there crap??!! n as for staying in the spare room? very much doubt it! unless hes had a pay rise at work his csa payment would stay the same! unless of course hes been found to have another child with another ex?? i just think if u 2 have been 2getha 10mnths n he hasnt made the effort to visit u yet then he isnt worthy of ur sweet love n the undoubted loyalty u have shown him! he needs to realise that long distance relationships need special care in terms of consideration n emotional support. how wil he treat u if u get married? if he doesnt appreciate the gem he has then sorry but move on n find a man that does, not a boy in mans clothing! better the bitter truth than the sweet lie! sori hon!
Hi Monkeyface,
It saddens me to read your post's,this guy is clearly messing you around and playing with your emotions and clearly does,nt have a heart,it is not acceptable to have an ex girfriend stay at his house on a weekend basis,think about this maybe he is pretending with his ex as he is with you,what i mean is she is an ex gf right,i'm guessing that she loves him and wants him back so he has suggested that they take thing's slow and this means her staying at weekends this way he still gets his nookie (sex),which obviously takes up all his time that he cant talk to you.After the weekend he then spend time talking to you telling you lies (playing with your emotions).All the tell tale signs are there monkeyface he is a joke.The longer you stay in this relationship the more heartache you will have,i'd say move on and find a real gent,that will want to spend every spare moment with you.The guy is a PRICK,LOSE HIM.
You want our opinion's well thats mine,Listen to the advice we peeps are giving you does that not tell you anything,you are wasting precious time with this guy.
@ TOMM
I'm just up the road from you,i'm near North Walsham,so u a Yarco are ya.
P.S Monkeyface sorrry if my post upset you,but i just hate guys like this.I rest my case.
blueberry ? i remember my hubby asked frednbyang so is you that one? cause i told him that frednbyang is near to your place NORFOLK
Monkeyface
An online relationship isn't real. If you've never met the person you must just treat it casually as an interest, or entertainment. Personally I wouldn't so called "text chat" to someone, I could waste too much time. I would be prepared to send and receive emails.
Even then, you must ask direct questions & demand direct answers as there is too much room for miss-interpretation. Even the English used had different meanings in different countries.
There's no formula to assess a person's sincerity but a slow, consistent direct approach to communication is a start. Look at other approaches to talking to someone other than "chatting" to blokes.
Good Luck
Hi guys,
I think it's time to close this thread as I have made my decision.
Thank you for your opinions and advices.
Monkeyface loves his bear.
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