hi , i just read this thread n my thoughts here r that jealousy without foundation is unreasonable n childish, however jealousy with total foundation is absolutely natural n its not jealousy really but well-founded suspicion!!! who wouldnt b suspicious with all this ex here n ex there crap??!! n as for staying in the spare room? very much doubt it! unless hes had a pay rise at work his csa payment would stay the same! unless of course hes been found to have another child with another ex?? i just think if u 2 have been 2getha 10mnths n he hasnt made the effort to visit u yet then he isnt worthy of ur sweet love n the undoubted loyalty u have shown him! he needs to realise that long distance relationships need special care in terms of consideration n emotional support. how wil he treat u if u get married? if he doesnt appreciate the gem he has then sorry but move on n find a man that does, not a boy in mans clothing! better the bitter truth than the sweet lie! sori hon!
