There is quite a high probability for any filipino lady meeting men on the internet that a man will show interest and then change his mind - or never pluck up courage to go over and see her - or meet someone else.Warning: this online dating are loads of red flags, don't think that some of these girls are sticking into one person. They have lists of foreigners that they keeping in touch, telling lies and making stories up until you hook up.
Unforunately men are not as loyal as so many filipino ladies seem to be. Therefore it is not surprising if some ladies keep contact with several men at once. Its not nice, but its a sensible reaction.
I hope and hope with Mae that she will not find anyone else. I don't think she is looking - but I have to keep that possibility open in my mind. If she is contacting someone else, they are not talking to her much, because she is always on the phone to me! Anyway, I just need to wait until we meet in August and we see each other face to face for the first time - nearly a year after first making contact!
Ian