TWO MEN
Two men, both seriously ill, occupied
the same hospital room. One man was
allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour
each afternoon to help drain the fluid
from his lungs. His bed was next to the
room's only window. The other man had to
spend all his time flat on his back.
The men talked for hours on end. They
spoke of their wives and families, their
homes, their jobs, their involvement in
the military service, where they had
been on vacation.
Every afternoon when the man in the bed
by the window could sit up, he would
pass the time by describing to his
roommate all the things he could see
outside the window.
The man in the other bed began to live
for those one-hour periods where his
world would be broadened and enlivened
by all the activity and color of the
world outside.
The window overlooked a park with a
lovely lake. Ducks and swans played on
the water while children sailed their
model boats. Young lovers walked arm in
arm amidst flowers of every color and a
fine view of the city skyline could be
seen in the distance.
As the man by the window described all
this in exquisite detail, the man on the
other side of the room would close his
eyes and imagine the picturesque scene.
One warm afternoon the man by the window
described a parade passing by. Although
the other man couldn't hear the band -
he could see it. In his mind's eye as
the gentleman by the window portrayed it
with descriptive words.
Days and weeks passed. One morning, the
nurse arrived to bring water for their
baths only to find the lifeless body of
the man by the window, who had died
peacefully in his sleep. She was
saddened and called the hospital
attendants to take the body away.
As soon as it seemed appropriate, the
other man asked if he could be moved
next to the window. The nurse was happy
to make the switch, and after making
sure he was comfortable, she left him alone.
Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up
on one elbow to take his first look at
the real world outside. He strained to
slowly turn to look out the window
beside the bed. It faced a blank wall.
The man asked the nurse what could have
compelled his deceased roommate who had
described such wonderful things outside
this window. The nurse responded that
the man was blind and could not even see
the wall. She said, "Perhaps he just
wanted to encourage you."
Lessons:
There is tremendous happiness in making
others happy, despite our own situations.
Shared grief is half the sorrow, but
happiness when shared, is doubled.
If you want to feel rich, just count all
the things you have that money can't buy.
People will forget what you said...
People will forget what you did...
But people will never forget how you
made them feel...
Make someone happy, share a kind word today.
Today is a gift, that’s why it is called
a present.