Thanks for that. I haven't been over to the Phills yet but we've spent more than 6 months together on ships. Our intention is for me to go over there when he finishes his contract , is it feasible to get married on the first trip over there.
We were going to get married in the Caribbean while we were on the ship but decided that we wanted our weeding to be a bit more special and not have to go back to work afterwards.
I'm glad I found this site, I've got a feeling I'm going to need all of your support, its good to know there's people out there who want help and know about this stuff. My friends and family are all supportive but in a kind of reserved way, I think they're all a bit wary because Berts not English...