Well Jessica, Debs Notts or whichever alias you now use, let me bring you up to date with my situation, i got married to "Tawing" in November 06 and by May 07 she had left the marital home chosing to live with other Filipinos and refusing to return "home", she lied both here on the forum and to others in person that she was "kicked out" when put simply that was not true as she left of her own accord, even in her posts here she contradicts herself regarding this, however even more wicked and spiteful of her was that she cast stories of being a "battered wife" again both on this site and in person to other Filipino and her workmates ect, now if this was true then why did she never have to attend hospital for cuts, bruises, broken bones ect? why? because it never happened, pure lies, again if it were true why was i never reported to the police and aressted?, why am i not in prison?, why am i still able to work as a care giver with vulnerable people if i was a "wife beater"...because put simply as me and her know it just never happened, how would genuine victims of domestic violence feel about her and her lies i wonder?, would they support there "sister" if they knew it was lies?, funny thing is the only time the police were called to any "domestic" between us was to remove her from my parents house on Boxing day due to her out of control behaviour!...anyway she paints me to be a wife beater, maybe this is in part to hide her adultary as she has been having an affair for sometime and guess making these stories kinda helps her justify her affair, luckily for me i know all that goes on in her life due to some "close" contacts so have been aware of her affair for sometime, kinda contradicts her "good Catholic girl" image she wishes to portray, in a way i suppose i pity her despite all her wicked lies and her cheating as i know she has a personality dissorder and can't help but lie, self pity and seek attention and at least now she is no longer my problem and the poor guy thats taken her on doesn't know what a mistake he has made-good luck mate cause you will sure need it. Anyway thanks god the divorce is now complete even she didn't respond to the petition at her old address or via her parents address, i got her new address also but as the petition went deemed service no need to enforce any further, now i am free to be with my love and she with her's...the sadest part was i was prepared to "help" her and offered her the easy way but sadly she chose the hard way and what's to come back home in Roxas City...wow!. To think i just wanted my ex to sign a bank form but true to form she lied and stubornly refused and gained nothing by this, thankfully i was easily able to sort this matter myself anyway, also she did make some claims to the police but again baseless and actually laughable, "he didn't let me spend money" "he made me sleep downstairs in the cold"...the female duty sargent at the police station actually laughed when reading this out and remarked "i will struggle to keep a straight face"...was she not ashamed coming across so weak and pathetic in making such stupid claims as an "offence"
...oh well just shows her "level" i guess. Seems my ex has made herself very unpopular with many of the Filipinos here especially many find her "aloof" "cold" and "snobby" and many even see straight through her lies, does she realize this i wonder?...so many stories i've heard with perhaps one from her old address being especially funny when she went "mad" at a house guest for taking her rice from the fridge and eating it...not very generous!...hey you state above in your post that you treated your ex to a holiday? really? where to...see i remember paying my ex's flight home costs but she never paid for a holiday for me...if you were her that would be another lie and false post...but hey your "Debs Notts" and she was posting under "Carmen"...goes by the name of Tawing...damm it was you!
safe flight home
Annie Mona (remember Annie?
