But when your married its not your wifes money or yours its both of yours.
As some of my Wifes Phill friends have found when they think they can borrow indefintely of the missus. I will make it know if my wife don't make her move and i would expect her to do the same if my mates took the mick out of me.
Funnily the one who used to do it a lot, was a flash show off lady who would always need to borrow things of my Wife which annoyed me when i knew my wife had worked for these items, while the other lady got it all from her sugar daddy husband.