Originally Posted by
ginapeterb
Hey Mick, how are you doing Pal ? good to see a solid 63 year old out in Phils doing the marriage thing, good for you, we older men will show em won't we mate.
63 is a good age mate, keep the British end up for us all here at FilipinoUK,
and as for your marriage paperwork, see if you can express fee your facsimile to NSO in Quezon City.
Try and offer a few pesos for a fixer to do the work for you, get your girl to find a fixer.
You might have to come home before your marriage contract on NSO Security paper is done.
But try and obtain a SECPA from the local NSO office in the provincial city where you are due to marry.
That normally suffices for the British Embassy, however you will still need your NSO Local marriage contract in full at a later date.
The way to avoid delays Mick is to prepare before your intended wedding day, when you visit the District registry ( your girl should know where this is) make sure the Judge who you are using is aware they need to expedite the paperwork quickly, you could speed up the process by inviting the presiding judge who officiates to be a guest at your wedding, also, you might want to consider tipping the Judge on top of his fee, by explaining your time constraints.
Also make sure the Judge is seated at your top table, and also, hand him a thank you envelope with say P2000.00 on top of his fee about P5000.00 and say its for expenses.
You could also take him a Box of Marks and Spencer Chocolates, or biscuits, tell him you brought them from London.
Apart from that, there isnt much else you could do, you could also tip the registrar in the district registry as well.
Alan has alluded to the fact that money talks, and in the Philippines it certainly does that, Philippines money number ! - everything else is secondary to that.
Best of Luck Mick, let us know how it all goes.