Welcome to the site.

What Admin says if she is having issues with temper, jealousy and feeling insecure. Are you planning to be together in Phill or the UK?
Either way round it sounds fraught with grief, if i was you i would move on for both your sakes.
A phill brit relationship is not easy on either partner particularly not the lady due to the pressure and changes she has to deal with. I think it takes a strong charcter to deal with it, if you think maybe its to much for her its properly best to go your seperate ways.

Good luck in what you choose to do