yorkshireman travelling east

[andypaul]

Welcome to the site.

What Admin says if she is having issues with temper, jealousy and feeling insecure. Are you planning to be together in Phill or the UK?
Either way round it sounds fraught with grief, if i was you i would move on for both your sakes.
A phill brit relationship is not easy on either partner particularly not the lady due to the pressure and changes she has to deal with. I think it takes a strong charcter to deal with it, if you think maybe its to much for her its properly best to go your seperate ways.

Good luck in what you choose to do

[nomorericepleas]

thanks for the welcome and thanks for all comments on my situation. It looked like things were over. I made a last ditch phone call and i think i talked her into trying to get over her trust problems. I've started by deleting the yahoo id's i have, and all the dating profiles i've made in the past have been turned off too. She has the passwords to a few ym id's so i can't do anything with those myself.
I'm sure her violent tendancies are down to her jealousy, and usually as a result of something careless i've done, without realising it would affect her so badly. I won't go into details about what went on during our last meeting, or what she did to me. I will be more careful what i do or say in future. I know she loves me very deeply indeed and i don't want to waste that kind of love, even if it is stifling at times. I know i can trust her, she never tried to cheat me in any way, and i don't know if i could say that about many others i have met on my travels there. I will make every effort to forget what she has done to me and my things, and i hope she can forget my stupid reactions.
It wont be easy winning her trust but i will try everything i can to do it, as she is a one in a million woman. She's completely at times when i make her angry, and many times i feel like, but i can never be sure i can find one like her.

[andypaul]

thanks for the welcome and thanks for all comments on my situation. It looked like things were over. I made a last ditch phone call and i think i talked her into trying to get over her trust problems. I've started by deleting the yahoo id's i have, and all the dating profiles i've made in the past have been turned off too. She has the passwords to a few ym id's so i can't do anything with those myself.
I'm sure her violent tendancies are down to her jealousy, and usually as a result of something careless i've done, without realising it would affect her so badly. I won't go into details about what went on during our last meeting, or what she did to me. I will be more careful what i do or say in future. I know she loves me very deeply indeed and i don't want to waste that kind of love, even if it is stifling at times. I know i can trust her, she never tried to cheat me in any way, and i don't know if i could say that about many others i have met on my travels there. I will make every effort to forget what she has done to me and my things, and i hope she can forget my stupid reactions.
It wont be easy winning her trust but i will try everything i can to do it, as she is a one in a million woman. She's completely at times when i make her angry, and many times i feel like, but i can never be sure i can find one like her.

Glad to hear things are on the up. Sounds like you both need to go some where with just the two of you and talk though things in depth with no intrruptions.

I hope things sort them selves out for you both

[nomorericepleas]

Glad to hear things are on the up. Sounds like you both need to go some where with just the two of you and talk though things in depth with no intrruptions.

I hope things sort them selves out for you both

right there mate, that was the big prob on the last trip, no time to ourselves. every day we had visitors, at meal times too. They'd all be chatting in visayan and i'd be sat like a spare prick not knowing what was being said. A very lonely and frustrating experience.
my fiancee now knows how i felt about that, so it hopefully wont repeat.