<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(deepete @ Apr 5 2006, 09:13 PM) Quoted post</div><div class='quotemain'>
So you all seem to think its O.K. for the guy to marry his partner without letting her know that he lives on benifits and she may turn out to be the breadwinner, and it didnt dawn on her to ask about his circumstances, if she did he must have lied because he said she doesnt know.
I dont think its a good way to start a marriage.
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I did actually make the point that he should be totally honest with his wife, and he hasn't. He's setting himself up for a big fall, so if I were him, I would tell her everything NOW.