<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(ervenescence @ Apr 27 2006, 09:42 AM) Quoted post</div><div class='quotemain'>
If this is for real, I would say poor girl because she doesn't know yet of whats the truth behind this guy who completely rely on benifits. Damn! why not tell her the truth! Its maybe because he's afraid of what might have happen, that she might turn out once she knows it? - lets say as same as reaction of the other women in his place when he tried to court them and once they knew the truth they were all vanish.
Please don't make lifes more complicated, don't think about the immigration for now - please he have to clean his mess first before getting involve with a filipina abroad and planning for a marriage. I hope he's not serious with this because the girl will end up of blaming him and the possibility of getting a divorce once she will know it after marriage. So 52 and 23? [img]style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/Erm.gif[/img] im not against of age gap, but I hope she will not dump him once she get her in the UK, only if she grant the visa.
(Now I fancy fish and chips [img]style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/laugh.gif[/img] )
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i felt so upset about the guy's situation....maybe its not his intention to hide the truth to the girl,its just that sometimes we get scared of telling the truth maybe if we did,well lost someoen who is dear to us.but still,if he really needs to be sure that the girl loves him then he must have tell her the truth before getting married...
his situation is a bit complicated specially when it comes to the embassy but i wish them good luck for the future.....
truelove26